Christine's Incident

Christine Schaubert: Front right.

I heard over the weekend that Christine had been helping someone with a horse, and they were a little sketchy on the details, but said she would not be able to walk for a year and that she had had three surgeries by the weekend. I was reluctant to call Christine's mom, Sharon, for fear of stirring her from what may be the only rest she was getting. But last night (July 29), I decided to try to call Christine's sister, Bethany. When that number that we had rang through as not in service, I broke down and called Sharon. Even though I got the details from her, I am still a little sketchy myself, but this is what Sharon told me.

Christine was out in Central Park in Elkhart with Black, which is the horse that belongs to Liz Borger Pletcher that Christine used to have in 4-H Saddle club several years ago. Liz was wanting her horse to be in the Musical "Oklahoma". But Black has been out of circulation for a few years due to health problems. Chris took Black off for a ride to get him used to the park. The horse got kind of jumpy and was upset. She was riding him down an incline and he started "crow jumping." He was not bucking, but Christine decided she needed to get down on the ground and calm him. She went to jump off, but she landed wrong.  Sharon said the impact of the way she landed broke two bones in her right leg. The Fibula shot through the skin and out through her blue jeans. The Tibia was shattered, somehow tearing through the skin and into the ground underneath.

Doctors were able to repair the Fibula. The Tibia is in very bad shape. The most recent surgery they did yesterday was to start grafting bone. There were just shards of bone in the Tibia to work with. Sharon said they have told her there will be many more surgeries. Christine will probably be "walking" with a walker and crutches. Sharon said they have told her it will be a year plus other recovery time before she will walk unaided.

Sharon has her hands full taking care of her 91 year old mother with Alzheimers at home. Now she will have two to care for. They told her yesterday that Chris might be able to go home today. (July 30). But Sharon said she was going to appeal to the Doctor to give her the weekend so that Chris might be further along in her recovery before sending her home.

If you know the family, you know what they have been through. Please keep them in your prayers.

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I saw Christine today at the Hospital. She looks great! Her attitude is superb. She was dressed in a polo shirt and shorts, no hospital gown for her today. She looks like a little athlete. She was cheerful and she joked with me when I came in, "So, I guess I have to break a leg to see some people I haven't seen for a while." Sharon is still hoping she won't go home until Monday. When I first got there, there was a Therapist there, I believe she was an Occupational Therapist, and she was going over some of the tips to help Christine manage when she goes home. Christine was saying, "Oh I'm so thankful for this information." I didn't get to stay long, but long enough for Christine to clear some of things up for me that were muddled. I promised to come visit her again when she gets home.

That's How It Is

Now that Jay is employed again, you would think that I could calm down and concentrate on other things. At least, I should be able to be content. But the last time he had the job he thought he wanted, back in December, he lost it after one week. He was so devastated, he came home and went to bed. I had a heck of a time getting him out of bed to go to a show we had to do that night. (We were in "Sander's Family Christmas" at the time.)

I was reminded yesterday that Jay is on this job for the first three weeks on probation. This next week is the critical week. The thing you must do at an RV factory is work quickly and efficiently.  He is telling me that they have already told him a couple of times that he has to build his drawers faster. He is now working as fast as he can, trying to keep ahead of the others there. He says he is working faster than he used to work when he was working for himself and thought he was working fast. In other words, according to him, he is working as fast as he can. If he gets fired this time, I don't know what it will do to him. He really wants to keep this job.

I believe in the power of prayer, but I also believe in the power of positive thinking. I told him that if he exudes confidence, it will be easier for me to be confident. It will also be easier for his employer to have confidence in him if he seems confident. Right now, he just seems scared. I don't blame him for being scared. He has been mostly out of work for two years. But you have to start somewhere.

If you think of him this week, and if you pray, go ahead and pray for him. If you don't pray, thanks for thinking of him, try to keep it positive. Jay worked for all the 30 years before he sold his shop. He worked hard and long hours. We raised our kids on his income alone, and, while sometimes we didn't have excess, we always had enough to pay bills and meet the needs of our family. He built beautiful cabinets for people. When the building business dried up and he wasn't building so many cabinets, he had a production job that kept him busy until the manufacturer replaced some of his product line with a plastic product. He isn't ready to retire yet.

I am trying to keep a positive attitude too. It is difficult, you know, because I am a pessimist by nature. See, even my blood type is B negative! I always think of the worse case scenario and hope that it doesn't happen. It's so easy to "be negative".  I would like to be more positive. My hero, Randy Pausch, in his book, "The Last Lecture" challenged me (us) to be a "Tigger" and not an "Eeyore". I really need to get a big picture of Tigger and put it up here in my office at home. And I need one to put up in the office at work, too. It will remind me that I have to choose to be upbeat and positive like Tigger, rather than gloomy like Eeyore. I think that's how it is, you have to make a conscience effort to choose to be positive. That's how it is, anyway, if you are me!

Restaurant Review: Niles, Michigan

We had occasion to eat at two Niles, Michigan restaurants and found both worthy of commmentary. So here goes.

On July 4th, we were heading back from being at Warren Dunes State Park. We decided we would stop in Niles instead of waiting to get all the way to South Bend.  We really just wanted something that was open since it was Sunday and 4th of July to boot! We stopped at a little place called "The Nugget." I feel like it was a real find! The service was excellent. The waiter was very attentive to our needs, yet not too yackety. (You know what I mean? Have you ever had a wait staff that you felt like wanted to be your long lost relative by the time the meal was over? Yes, and all you wanted was for them to just shut up so you could enjoy your dinner?) Just by way of contrast, we had recently tried a newer restaurant in Goshen and within 10 minutes of being there, the waitress had Jay so thoroughly annoyed I thought we were going to have to leave.  I will save that for another post, though. And only if you tell me you want to know.

The food at the Nugget was very good. The waiter brought out my soup-of-the-day, homemade chicken dumpling soup. As he handed it to me, he said, "I made that fresh this morning." I was getting ready for the requisite chuckle and the "yeah, right". But I looked at his face and saw he was serious. So I stifled. That soup was tremendous. I could have made a meal of the soup alone. Big chunky vegetables in a hearty broth with just the right amount of dumplings. Jay had chosen the salad, which was not as commendable as the soup. (Neither of us are real fans of iceberg lettuce based salad. More on this later.)

Jay had asked about the special of the day, which was a batter fried fish. But the waiter thought Jay might enjoy the cajun tilapia, which turned out to be a great choice. It was lightly hand breaded with cajun seasonings and was broiled rather than fried. I had grilled shrimp, and it was very impressive. Nice and moist, cooked just right and contained a lemon pepper seasoning. I am drooling just thinking about it. We were too full for dessert. Seems like we always are.

The second place we stopped in Niles was on the occasion of our 32 anniversary. While we were eating at the Nugget, we were reading our placemats there, which were cleverly put together by the Chamber of Commerce, I believe. It featured other businesses and restaurants to try in the area. This lead us to our discovery of the Riverfront Cafe. We had seen it on our way into town, but I was in the wrong lane to turn off the main drag to get there, and we didn't want to go back in case it was closed.

Maybe we should have taken the warning from the hostess that the air conditioner was on the blink. It was getting to be evening, though, by the time we got there. I didn't think it would be too uncomfortable, even though it had been pretty hot all day.

We were impressed by the brick interior walls and all the wood trim. It was the kind of restaurant you can dress up a little to go, or come in from a day of shopping and still feel comfortable.  The table we sat at had bench seats, you can see us in the picture at the beginning of the blog.

The food was all very good and prices reasonable. I had a chicken portabella with marsala sauce accompanied by garlic mashed potatoes. Jay had a prime rib dinner with baby red roasted potatoes. Before they brought that out to us, though, we had our dinner salads. The salads were of fresh baby greens with crumbled blue cheese and spicy slivered almonds and dried cranberries. I had the house dressing which was a balsamic vinaigrette, Jay had blue cheese. (Or bleu cheese, if you prefer). I ate every bite of it! You may not believe me when I tell you, because I, like my daughter, love bread; but the least desirable item we were served was the cranberry apple walnut bread that accompanied the meal. I guess since I was expecting a nut bread, and it was clearly a yeast bread base, I was a little put off by it. But it doesn't matter. I was very satisfied with the rest of the meal. In fact I was so stuffed that I had to refuse even to split the cute little $2.00 desserts the waitress brought by after we had finished the meal. These  were mostly of the cheesecake and mousse variety. They looked splendid! So if you go, be hungry!

The really sad part is that by the time the desserts came, Jay had just about all he could handle of the problem with the air conditioner not working there. The restaurant does have outdoor patio dining, and we could have chosen that. It is very rarely that I like eating on the patio anywhere. I don't like bugs. But there were a couple of flies in the restaurant, too, so...(By the way, I killed those two flies with a rolled up magazine I had picked up in the lobby while we were waiting to be seated.) Hopefully, the air conditioning problem has been fixed.

If you are going through Niles, I could recommend either one of these restaurants. Hope you enjoy your time there!

Summertime

It's been so long since I blogged, and I won't make this one long. I will just say that I am really enjoying the summer. I don't know if the thyroid medication has contributed to this at all, but I have lost that dreadful, morbid and depressed feeling I had all winter. I feel pretty good and a little more optimistic most of the time.

Jay started a new job at Jayco. Finally. He has been waiting for this position since February and has tried to keep occupied with other things in the process. I am still not really optimistic about this, but a week has gone by and things are still looking good for him there. This, in spite of the fact that he was about half an hour late on Thursday. We are not going to let that happen again. We have alarm clocks set all over the house now at about 5 minute intervals!

We could not really afford it, but we went away for two nights for our anniversary to St. Joseph Michigan.  That was fun. We went to Silver Beach a couple of times, walked around at the Krasal Art Fair. We didn't buy anything, but it was fun to look. We didn't have to pay to go to the beach because we found a place within walking distance to park both times. We played frisbee in the water, which is a lot more fun than playing in the yard. We took pictures to memorialize it all.

We have been married 32 years. Let me tell you, it hasn't been easy. There are many, many days between the day I said "I do" and all the way up until now that I feel like I made a terrible mistake. There have been plenty of times I have wanted to throw in the towel. But, Jay and I do love each other. There are a lot of things that we see eye to eye on, and we have built a life together. The last two years while he has been mostly unemployed have not been a picnic, but we have toughed it out. I am hoping for better days ahead.

I finished reading the book "Moon River and Me" by Andy Williams. It was a trip down memory lane. An autobiography is a great way to see that other people have had pain and sadness in their lives as well as success.  It binds the heart to see all the times someone tried and failed, and then, eventually, they succeeded. Makes you feel that you are not alone, and you will succeed too.

Just one more paragraph. I sooooo enjoyed my most recent day with my daughter, July 12. We went to Mount Baldy near Michigan City, Indiana. I forgot the camera, but she took some pictures with her cell phone. Maybe we will figure out how to download the pictures and put them on Facebook. Keep an eye out for that. Anyway, it was fun getting out in the water that day. Waves were coming in and it was fun to body surf. We just had some good conversation too. Good times!